Kahuna's Mobile Entertainment
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Kahuna's Mobile Entertainment
Centralia, WA
United States
ph: 702-556-2681
djkahuna
Kids Games
Games are Being re-structured 6/17/2011, expected (1 week plz, be back shortly)
Safety First!
When Your Child Is Host
A parent should be present for the entire party
Your presence at the party will help keep the party running smoothly. Your presence will also give you an opportunity to meet your child's friends. When possible, do not have the party in a separate part of the house. When the children gather on the main floor of the home, your presence will seem more natural and non-obtrusive. You may want to designate additional responsible adults to help chaperone the party. One adult for every 10 kids is a good rule to follow. With fewer adults, it is difficult to keep track of what is happening, and you increase your liability in case of an emergency.
Alcohol or other drugs should not be served or allowed at the party
All adults need to be alert to the signs of alcohol or drug use. Unruly guests or those who try to bring in alcohol or drugs should be asked to leave immediately. If anyone arrives at the party under the influence of alcohol or another drug, the child's parent should be called to ensure their safe transportation home.
You may be liable both criminally and for damages if you furnish alcohol or drugs to a minor. Check with local officials or your attorney for specific laws, ordinance guidelines, and rules. 
If anyone leaves the party they should not be allowed to return
This will discourage people from leaving your property with the intent to drink or use drugs and return to the party.
Encourage small parties
Do not allow an open-house party. This type of party limits the control that both the parent and the children have over what happens at the party. Keep a guest list. Know the curfew laws for your area. Set time limits for the party that will enable children to be home before the curfew.
Parents and the child need to set the date and the theme of a party
Set a date that is convenient for the parents, the child, and the guests. Avoid having a party on a day that is filled with school activities. Make certain that the parent has some free time before and after the party date to take care of preparation, party time, and follow up.
A theme adds excitement to the party. Be creative and think of fun ideas. Some possibilities might be a luau, scavenger hunt, or TV show. 
Parents and the child need to sit down and write out ground rules for the party
This will give you both a good opportunity to express feelings and concerns. Let your child know what is expected of him/her. When children and parents work together to determine the rules (and the consequences), the child is more motivated to help enforce them. Help your child understand your philosophy of non-alcohol and non-drug parties.
Send invitations a few weeks before the party
Do not have your child distribute invitations at school!! Find the address of each child and send the invitations in the mail. Do not allow non-invited guests to attend the party.
Notify neighbors a week before the party
Notify neighbors that you are planning a party. Your child should contact close neighbors asking them to please let you know if there is too much noise. Also, help the neighbors understand that the party is being properly chaperoned and the hours that they can expect any minor inconvenience.
Notify police when planning a large party
This will provide safety for both guests and neighbors.
Plan to have plenty of food and non-alcoholic drinks
As you and your child prepare for the party it is important that you plan foods that the children will enjoy. If you need some ideas, check out our "snack section." You may want to make preparing the food part of the fun. "Make your own" taco, pizza, or sundae can add a spark to the party.
Plan activities with your child prior to the party
As with the food, it is important to have your child involved with planning the activities for the party. You may want to also include the child's best friend. There are game ideas in this booklet. As a part of the activities, make sure that you and your child plan for the music that will be played during the party. Preview music for appropriateness. It is best to not allow kids to just bring music to play. You don't need to be surprised. If you need additional music, make certain that your child tells the other youth what type of music you have both agreed is appropriate.
Plan for the "flow" of the party
You need to make a plan for the "flow" of the party. What will happen as the friends arrive? When will they eat? When will they engage in activities? It is best to plan this with the child.
Homes where parents are absent are frequent party sites
If you need to be out of town, have a friend or relative "live in" while you are away. Indicate, to both the child and the adult, that there should be no parties in your absence.
Plan for children getting home
Parents need to know when to pick up children after the party.
Curfew
Be aware of the curfew laws in your community. Make certain youth will be home before the city and children's parents' curfew.
Other Ideas
Make time to get acquainted with your children's friends and their parents. If, despite your precautions, things get out of hand, do not hesitate to call your police department for assistance.
Checklist for discussion with your child:
Date of party
Theme of party
Determine how many children will be invited
Time and length of party
Identify who to invite
Party rules
No alcohol allowed
No drugs allowed
No one returns to the party after they leave
Identify parts of the house that are "Off Limits"
Behavior expectations at party
No one leaves the party without the knowledge of the planning parent
Adults will be present and visible during the entire party
Other agreed upon rules
Plan activities
Plan food
Plan decorations
How will neighbors be notified
Plan the order of activities
Preview music for appropriateness
Now you're ready to have a great party!
When Your Child Attends
| Contact the hosting parents. Verify that the parents are aware of the party and that it will be properly chaperoned. Confirm that there will be no alcohol or other drugs permitted at the party. Offer your assistance. |
| Know where your child will be. Have the address and phone number of the party giver. Let your child know that you expect a phone call if the location of the party is changed. |
| Know how your child will get to and from the party. If you are unable to provide transportation for your child, make certain that you know which parent will be driving to and from the party. |
| Be sure your child understands what time he/she is to be home. |
| Be awake, or have your child awaken you, when he/she arrives home. This is also a good time for children to share the excitement of the party with you. |
| Let your child know they can call you for a ride home. If your child feels uncomfortable with anything happening at the party make sure they know that they can call for a ride home at any time. The child may need a phone card or make sure they understand that they can call collect. Discuss with your child the possible situations that might necessitate such a phone call: drugs or alcohol being present at the party; other illegal activity; not feeling comfortable with the situation; just wanting a way out; the party not being properly supervised; or fighting or aggressive behavior. If you are not going to be home, let your child know where you can be reached or whom they can call to get a ride. Make certain that your back up driver is aware that you are not going to be available and that they know the phone number and address of the party host. |
| If your child is staying overnight with a friend following a party. Check with the parents of the friend beforehand to verify that it is acceptable for your child to spend the night, that they will be home, and that you agree on a curfew. |
| Your child may want to send a thank you note or phone the party-giver the next day. |
| If your child does use drugs or alcohol at the party. Your child needs to know in advance that it is OK to come home. They need to know that there will be strong consequences, but that you will discuss the consequences in the morning. This will give you both an opportunity to calm down. Home needs to remain a safe place. Blind Man's Bluff The Chocolate Game The Farmer's In His Den Hot Potato Hunt the Thimble (or slipper, or other object) Musical Chairs Oranges and Lemons Pass the Parcel Pin the Tail on the Donkey Pinata Wink Murder Duck Duck Goose Hol Horse's Mom Sleeping Lions Bingo Treasure Hunt String Treasure Hunt Scavenger Hunts Mail Call Honey I Love You Back to Back Guess What? Head to Toe Oranges 1 Oranges 2 Guess the Phrase Wink'Um Around the Table Ping Pong King Elephant Hand Pat Hi, Larry Coin Toss/Hand Squeeze Race All Tied Up Airplane Bonko |
Kahuna's Mobile Entertainment
Centralia, WA
United States
ph: 702-556-2681
djkahuna
